Man, Tobus nailed that one right on the head big time!
I had a similar fantasy about living in town and "just building on the weekends until the place was ready."
The fact was that I just was not ready to do what Tobus wrote -
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I think it's best to just dive in whole-hog. Put yourself in the situation where your homestead is where you live from the start. Then your saturated in that environment and you have a lot more reason to continue working on it.
Dudes, truer words were never written!
Fortunately my wife grabbed me by the ear lobe and dragged me up, kicking and screaming all the way, just as soon as most of the snow melted off the land.
Smart woman.
Once you move onto your off-grid land, you'll immediately begin saving tons of cash - No rent, cable bill, water bill, power bill, internet hookup or any of the crap that goes along with living in town.
All this cash can be directly poured into building your home bit by bit, paying for it as you go along. You'll never go into debt. You'll never be burdened under a 250,000 mortgage.
Instantly your back will straighten up a bit and you'll walk a little taller.
By the end of the first week, you'll be so in love with your land that you'll wonder why the heck you waited so long to move up there!
You
need to live on the land. Only then will you discover the way the sunlight interacts with the land. The direction the breezes flow after sundown, the very best place to put your home-to-be.
You'll learn to live
Deliberately, as Thoreau wrote -
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I went to the woods because I wished to live deliberately, to front only the essential facts of life, and see if I could not learn what it had to teach, and not, when I came to die, discover that I had not lived.
You will be truly amazed at all the crap you can leave behind you in town, and be better of for it!
Do not be concerned with the fact that you may ever have built anything before in your life - You will be truly amazed at what you can accomplish once you have to - Once you have set yourself a task and there is no going back. You will grow as an individual as your homestead grows. You will developed new skills and abilities, and will surprise yourself with what you have accomplish!
You will discover that you just do not need two incomes to live on.
You don't need a T.V., new car, fancy toys and clothes and all the junk you used to think of as "necessities." You can live perfectly comfortably without running water, power, air conditioning, central heating and all the other things that turn people into couch potatoes.
Your wife will be able to stay home and live the country life she has imagined.
You can set her small construction tasks to do while you go off to work during the week days. The building will go much faster, and she will grow as an individual, with new self confidence born of her new skills and abilities as well.
Always be sure to be very impressed with what she has done that day when you get home! Then have dinner, light the lanterns and get your ass to work for a few hours! No laying on your butt watching TV or goofing off on the internet for this sturdy homesteader. Stay focused on the here and now!
You'll find that the physical exercise will do you a world of good after a day spent at a sedentary job.
My wife and I moved into a tiny travel trailer. I'd gutted the interior with a chain saw so I had room for a small wood stove and to build a bed that I did not need to fold up every day.
I built a big shed roof over the trailer, a storage shed, outdoor shower and sink to wash dishes in out behind the trailer, dug a shallow well and installed a hand pump, dug an outhouse and hung up a hammock between two shady trees. Instant homestead!
We lived like this for a year and a half while building our cottage.
We got 15 feet of snow that first winter.
It was literally the time of our lives.
When we did finally move into our cottage we took all our crap out of storage and went through it. We now had the room again, but we discovered an amazing thing, that we had been tempered somehow - Suddenly this pile of crap was just that -crap that we simply didn't need or want anymore. It all went to Good Will. Let someone else clutter up their lives with it all.
Honestly folks - If you dream of homesteading,
Do it now!Don't wait till the house is paid off, sell it! Don't wait till the kids moved out, or whatever it is that you think you must wait for "Until I'm ready."
You'll suddenly wake up an old man and never have realized your dream.