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For us, our goal is to keep total expenses where they are less than a third of what we bring home.
Yikes!

You must make a shitload of money! Even if I were to pare down my expenses as much as possible, eat nothing but Ramen noodles, get rid of my horses, and live on a postage stamp lot in a tent, I don't think I could reach that point. And I make a pretty good living compared to many. To me, that seems a little excessive. It would require years upon years of living like a hobo.
But then again, my wife doesn't really earn a paycheck, so it's hard to compare. Most households these days have two working adults, which makes a huge difference. I am the sole supporter of our household. My wife does work, but it's usually in trade for other stuff, or simply as an "apprentice" in the leather tooling business. Perhaps if she were college educated and working in a corporate job like many women, your figure would be more realistic.
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Much of this in my mind is rejecting materialism in relationship to "keeping up with the Jones'es". One does not need a new car ever two years. One does not need a $50k SUV.
See, that's the thing that gets me. I don't do any of that. I've never bought a vehicle that cost more than $18k. We don't give a crap about "image" like most folks. And even though we spent a lot (to us, anyway) on our homestead, it's still less than most folks pay for a regular house on a 1/4 acre lot. The only debt we carry is the house note and a vehicle, and we drive our vehicles until they die. But being able to get our expenses below 1/3 of my take-home pay would just be out of the realm of possibility.
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I know you are an Engineer, but do you have a plan "B" if that field goes bust? Or do you feel confident that you will always have employment in that field?
Short of a total economic collapse, I am confident I could find gainful employement. Maybe not on the same level I currently make, but enough to cover my monthly expenses.
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In hindsight under this very thought, I wish that years ago instead of renting an apartment for so long, I bit the bullet and bought a trailer somewhere on a 1/6 acre lot. I would have been much better off. But the reason I did not do it at the time is because I had some dumb preconceived mental notion that trailer living was a lowering of my social class (which as time showed... I have none.
And see, I would view that decision as a mistake. Buying a trailer is a losing investment. They depreciate like hell. And a small lot isn't going to appreciate very much as an investment. Sure, it would be great to live cheaply like that and sock away money. But you're losing money in the process.
The "classic" notion of investment is to buy as much house as you can comfortably afford. This is precisely because land and houses appreciate. If you have to spend money to live somewhere, why not make that an investment instead of something that simply loses money?
I admit my mortgage payment is at a level that requires me to earn a decent paycheck to afford. But every month when I write that check, I'm building equity and the land is gaining in value. That same wouldn't be true of a trailer on a 1/6 acre lot.
For example, my first house that I bought was on 2 acres. At the time it was about as much as I could afford. I paid $148,000 for it. I sold it three years later for $174,000. That was a $26,000 profit over three years. And I took that profit and rolled it over into my new property. I also bought my current property below market value from a friend who was moving away and needed to sell quickly. I am confident that I could sell this place right now for at least $50,000 more than I paid for it three years ago.
But the thing that chips away at that profit margin is interest. Every month when I write a check to the lender, I'm building equity, but I'm also reducing my profit. If I could pay the mortgage off today and save myself all that interest, it would increase my profit margin if I decided to sell. Which leads me to the next point.
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So I am not saying that paying off the mortgage is bad. I am just saying there may be better uses off the funds which can give a higher return.
That "higher return" would FIRST have to overcome the loss in interest that he's paying on the house. So if his current interest rate for his mortgage is 7 percent, he would have to find an investment that yields more than 7 percent profit before he even starts seeing any profit. And I can't think of any safe investments with a yield that high. Except firearms.