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It's a little daunting to have to walk up and knock
Up here, you never ever walk up to the door!!
You hike up to the homestead and halloo from as far away as possible. When someone shows, then you can walk up ( ifn they ain't pointing a gun at you.

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Or bake 'em a pie and just take it over there to introduce yourself.
+1.
This is one of our favorite methods. Only had so-so success with it though.
If you use one of your best pyrex glass pie plates it can be a useful test of their character to see if they return it or not. Good way to see what kind of folk they are.
Best method for producing good friends that I've found is stopping when I find 'em stuck in the snow late at night, or when their car has broken down.
When you break down up here, you either walk out or build a log cabin and homestead on the spot...
In the past we've snow shoed back to cabins where we know newbies are snowed in for the winter, just to bring them a gift of food and see if they have carved each other up with steak knives yet.
OK, so maybe this isn't very helpful advice for most people

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Also, my wife is an introvert, big time.
I think I'm one of the biggest introverts going. It's a wonder I even post on the internet.
I
like it under my moss covered rock.
I don't look for outside help of any kind, ever. The whole bloody world can step off for all I care.
Yet, we have a neighbors up here that live farther up the mountain. They are true hermits indeed, and make me look downright chummy by comparison. They just about
never socialize.
They waited a year after we'd moved up into the woods in a tiny travel trailer before the husband bothered to say "hello" to us as he hiked by our place.
They will accept no gifts of any kind. We know, we've tried.
After the first winter, they figured we'd be staying and we must have proved ourselves, so both the husband and wife hiked up one day to introduce themselves.
They will almost never come into our home or eat any of our food. They've even spent a day helping us stucco the exterior of our house, but brought their own canteens to drink from, their own food to eat, and they walked off into the forest to lunch by themselves...
These folk are so bloody self sufficient and withdrawn from the "everyday" world it ain't funny!
But, given time, you can get to know even people like these. You just have to accept them on their own terms. Recently the man surprised me by stopping as he was snow shoeing by and helping me wrestle with my snow plow. He wouldn't come inside to warm up or dry off afterwards, but he did help me out when I needed it. Some folk are just that way.
Our modern society is so isolated and compartmentalized. It is very difficult to get to know people.
The moment you try, the other feller is automatically thinking "I wonder what he wants from me? "