No Fryeg, we don't have any children.
Neither of us ever wanted any. The planet is getting just to durn filled up for my tastes. We do have uh, a dozen of more nieces and nephews.
We're the cool aunt and uncle who let the kids run around in the woods like little Indians, shoot guns, play with knives, build camp fires, forage for wild edibles, all that neat stuff.
When we've had enough kids for the time being, we send 'em home!
This way we get to spoil 'em and tweak their little brains, then send them away so we can enjoy the peace and quiet.
How did I make the transition? I dunno, we just did it!
I had been planning on moving up into the woods for a few years before I was married. I even bought a used travel trailer to live in when I happened upon a good deal.
I think the primary motivation for me was that I knew the only way I'd ever own a house was to build one myself. I am just to durn cheap to pay hundreds of thousand of dollars for a tacky frame dwelling, and I am just the kind of guy who simply could never sign onto such a huge debt like a twenty year mortgage. It would make me feel like a slave, and I would forever worry about paying off this huge millstone around my neck.
I don't want to be any kind of slave, even a wage slave.
Before we were married, Heidi and I talked over the kind of life style we would like to have together.
She was all for moving out into the woods. I don't think she really thought much about the full implications. The subject of living off grid never even came up.
She was just 18 when we married. As a teenager, she still Knew Everything.
This was a good thing because it gave her unbounded confidence. She never once looked back.
It's all us grownups that lack confidence in our own abilities to do something different.
She grew up pretty far back in the hills. They don't have phone lines up there, but they do have power. Most of the time.
She was used to the isolation, and the woods. I'm the ex-city slicker in the family!
When we bought the property, it was Heidi who was very impatient to move there.
I even did delay the move one year. We got the land in the fall one year and just managed to get the trailer up before the real snow hit.
That winter we drove up to visit from time to time. First time, we made it twenty feet from the truck. The very next visit, we came back with snow shoes and made it the 1/2 mile up to the trailer!
Spring came, and I did manage to gut the trailer and make it livable by putting in a wood stove, removing the useless bathroom, building a real bed inside, and building a shed roof over everything.
But we didn't move in that year. I was very busy at work all summer and all my spare time went into rebuilding her fathers old international td-18a dozer. We were gonna do our excavating with this huge old monster. ( I did give up on it eventually and hire someone to do the excavating )
Winter came and went. Spring came, and just as soon as the snows were melted off enough to drive up, Heidi insisted we get rid of our apartment and move up to the land.
But we'd just wrecked our new Toyota 4x4! This left us with an old 400 dollar junker toyota two wheel drive pickup!
I was even making noise about living in town while we built the foundation and so forth.
But Heidi practically grabbed me by the ear and dragged me up!
So up we went. The snows were still melting off and we had a stream running under the trailer!
The long commute was the first thing I had to adjust to.
The fact that I could no longer work long hours ( sometimes 24 hours straight! ) was the first thing my boss had to adjust to!
But we didn't mind living in the trailer one bit. Sure we didn't have electricity, but who needs it?
We had a propane fridge in the camper, and a good propane range.
For lights we had candles ( my wife is the biggest candle bug ever! ) and kerosene lamps.
We had a shower rigged up outside and an outhouse.
We had limitless warmth from our wood stove. The well with a hand pump on it was twenty feet away from the trailer.
We had a .22 rifle, a .45 automatic, and a Mosin M44. What more can two people want?
We look back at the year and a half that we lived in that trailer as the most idyllic of our lives.